someone captures my feelings! Before we added Teme to our family, everyone with a larger family told us..."after three it doesn't really matter". Implied to me was doesn't add stress, doesn't get more difficult, etc. When reading a Reader's Digest my mom passed on to me I found my feelings captured.
"If you want to know what it's like to have a fourth kid, just imagine you're drowning and someone hands you a fourth kid."
Please don't be offended, it was on the LAUGH!:) page!